The world of television has seen its fair share of romantic relationships, and one such story is that of Delnaaz Irani and Rajiv Paul. The two actors met on the sets of the serial ‘Parivartan’ in 1993, and their love blossomed, leading to a marriage in 1998. However, their 14-year-long marriage came to an end, and Delnaaz has now opened up about their separation. In a candid conversation, she revealed that the lack of respect in their relationship was a major factor that led to their split.
Delnaaz emphasized that when there’s no respect in a relationship, it’s often better to move on. She shared her thoughts, saying, “Rajiv keeps denying it, but we had already parted ways. Sometimes, it happens that there’s no love or respect left. For me, respect is crucial in a relationship.” The actress also mentioned that she had emotionally checked out of the marriage long before they officially separated.
Moving On Is Sometimes the Best Option
Delnaaz further explained that when she says she loves her current partner, Percy, it’s because she has immense respect for him. She believes that when a relationship lacks respect, it’s best to move forward. There are people who stay in unhappy marriages, constantly complaining, and Delnaaz doesn’t want to live a life filled with lies. She emphasized the importance of being honest with oneself, saying, “Why should we lie to ourselves? I didn’t want to live a life filled with lies. At least be truthful to yourself.”
Having Children Isn’t Always the Solution
The actress also addressed the common notion that having children can save a marriage. Delnaaz disagreed, stating that this is often an unrealistic expectation. She shared her own experience, saying, “We got married at a young age; I was 22.5, and he was 24. We loved each other, but we were struggling in life. We picked up the pieces and built our lives, but eventually, everything fell apart, and we parted ways. My marriage had ended long before we officially separated. I still had hope that things would get better, but emotionally, physically, and mentally, I was exhausted.”
A Look Back at Their Marriage and Divorce
Delnaaz and Rajiv, who belong to the Parsi community, participated in the reality show ‘Bigg Boss 6’ just a few months after their divorce. The couple had separated in 2010 and officially divorced in 2012. Despite their split, they continue to be a part of the entertainment industry, with Delnaaz now focusing on her career and personal life with her partner, Percy. As she navigates this new chapter, Delnaaz’s story serves as a reminder that sometimes, moving on and prioritizing one’s own happiness is the best decision.